[DAG] disable nsw/nuw for add/sub/mul when simplifying based on demanded bits (PR30841)

This bug was exposed by using nsw/nuw for more aggressive folds in:
https://reviews.llvm.org/rL284844

The changes mimic the IR demanded bits logic in InstCombiner::SimplifyDemandedUseBits(),
but we can't just flip flag bits in the DAG; we have to create a new node that has the
bits cleared.

This should fix:
https://llvm.org/bugs/show_bug.cgi?id=30841 

llvm-svn: 285656