[ELF] Change the search order for dependent libraries

When processing dependent libraries, if there's a directory of the same
name as the library being searched for, either in the current directory
or earlier in the search order, LLD will try to open it and report an
error. This is because LLD uses file existence check. To address this
issue we reverse the order, searching the library by basename first
and only considering search paths later, and current directory last.

Differential Revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D118498