[mlir][ArmSME] Make use of backend function attributes for enabling ZA storage (#71044)

Previously, we were inserting za.enable/disable intrinsics for functions
with the "arm_za" attribute (at the MLIR level), rather than using the
backend attributes. This was done to avoid a dependency on the SME ABI
functions from compiler-rt (which have only recently been implemented).

Doing things this way did have correctness issues, for example, calling
a streaming-mode function from another streaming-mode function (both
with ZA enabled) would lead to ZA being disabled after returning to the
caller (where it should still be enabled). Fixing issues like this would
require re-doing the ABI work already done in the backend within MLIR.

Instead, this patch switches to use the "arm_new_za" (backend) attribute
for enabling ZA for an MLIR function. For the integration tests, this
requires some way of linking the SME ABI functions. This is done via the
`%arm_sme_abi_shlib` lit substitution. By default, this expands to a
stub implementation of the SME ABI functions, but this can be overridden
by providing the `ARM_SME_ABI_ROUTINES_SHLIB` CMake cache variable
(pointing it at an alternative implementation). For now, the ArmSME
integration tests pass with just stubs, as we don't make use of nested
ZA-enabled calls.

A future patch may add an option to compiler-rt to build the SME
builtins into a standalone shared library to allow easily
building/testing with the actual implementation.