[CMake] Support statically linking dependencies only to shared or static library

Currently it's possible to select whether to statically link unwinder
or the C++ ABI library, but this option applies to both the shared
and static library. However, in some scenarios it may be desirable to
only statically link unwinder and C++ ABI library into static C++
library since for shared C++ library we can rely on dynamic linking
and linker scripts. This change enables selectively enabling or
disabling statically linking only to shared or static library.

Differential Revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D49502

llvm-svn: 337668