AsmPrinter: Store abbreviation data directly in DIE and DIEValue

Stop storing a `DIEAbbrev` in `DIE`, since the data fits neatly inside
the `DIEValue` list.  Besides being a cleaner data structure (avoiding
the parallel arrays), this gives us more freedom to rearrange the
`DIEValue` list.

This fixes the temporary memory regression from 845 MB up to 879 MB, and
drops it further to 829 MB for a net memory decrease of around 1.9%
(incremental decrease around 5.7%).

(I'm looking at `llc` memory usage on `verify-uselistorder.lto.opt.bc`;
see r236629 for details.)

llvm-svn: 238364