Improve dynamic AST matching diagnostics for conversion errors

Currently, when marshaling a dynamic AST matchers, we check for the type
and value validity of matcher arguments at the same time for some matchers.
For instance, when marshaling hasAttr("foo"), the argument is first type
checked to ensure it's a string and then checked to see if that string can
locate an attribute with that name. Similar happens for other enumeration
conversions like cast kinds or unary operator kinds. If the type is
correct but the value cannot be looked up, we make a best-effort attempt
to find a nearby name that the user might have meant, but if one cannot
be found, we throw our hands up and claim the types don't match.

This has an unfortunate behavior that when the user enters something of
the correct type but a best guess cannot be located, you get confusing
error messages like:
Incorrect type for arg 1. (Expected = string) != (Actual = String).

This patch splits the argument check into two parts: if the types don't
match, give a type diagnostic. If the type matches but the value cannot
be converted, give a best guess diagnostic or a value could not be
located diagnostic. This addresses PR47057.