[RISCV] Assert initial load/store SEW is the EEW

In D127983, I had flipped from using the computed EEW to using the SEW value pulled from the VSETVLI when checking compatibility. This wasn't intentional, though thankfully it appears to be a non-functional difference. The new code does make a unchecked assumption that the initial SEW operand on the load/store is the EEW. This patch clarifies the assumption, and adds an assert to make sure this remains true.

Differential Revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D128085