Revert "[darwin] switch blocking mutex from osspinlock to os_unfair_lock"

> OSSpinLock is deprecated, so we are switching to `os_unfair_lock`. However, `os_unfair_lock` isn't available on older OSs, so we keep `OSSpinLock` as fallback.
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> Also change runtime assumption check to static since they only ever check constant values.
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> rdar://69588111
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> Reviewed By: delcypher, yln
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> Differential Revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D97509

This reverts commit 71ef5433.