[libc++] Add custom clang-tidy checks

Reviewed By: #libc, ldionne

Spies: jwakely, beanz, smeenai, cfe-commits, tschuett, avogelsgesang, Mordante, sstefan1, libcxx-commits, ldionne, mgorny, arichardson, miyuki

Differential Revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D131963