[RISCV] Support load clustering in the MachineScheduler (off by default) (#73754)

This adds minimal support for load clustering, but disables it by
default. The intent is to iterate on the precise heuristic and the
question of turning this on by default in a separate PR. Although
previous discussion indicates hope that the MachineScheduler would
replace most uses of the SelectionDAG scheduler, it does seem most
targets aren't using MachineScheduler load clustering right now:
PPC+AArch64 seem to just use it to help with paired load/store formation
and although AMDGPU uses it for general clustering it also implements
ShouldScheduleLoadsNear for the SelectionDAG scheduler's clustering.