[MemProf] Tolerate missing leaf debug frames (#71233)

Loosen up the matching so that a missing leaf debug frame in the profile
does not prevent matching an allocation context if we can match further
up the inlined call context. This relies on the pre-inliner, which was
already the default when performing normal PGO feedback along with the
MemProf feedback, but to ensure matching is not affected by the presence
of PGO, enable the pre-inliner for MemProf feedback as well.