[SDAG] try to replace subtract-from-constant with xor

This is almost the same as the abandoned D48529, but it
allows splat vector constants too.

This replaces the x86-specific code that was added with
the alternate patch D48557 with the original generic
combine.

This transform is a less restricted form of an existing
InstCombine and the proposed SDAG equivalent for that
in D128080:
https://alive2.llvm.org/ce/z/OUm6N_

Differential Revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D128123