[profile] Fix file contention causing dropped counts on Windows under -fprofile-generate

See PR43425:
https://bugs.llvm.org/show_bug.cgi?id=43425

When writing profile data on Windows we were opening profile file with
exclusive read/write access.

In case we are trying to write to the file from multiple processes
simultaneously, subsequent calls to CreateFileA would return
INVALID_HANDLE_VALUE.

To fix this, I changed to open without exclusive access and then take a
lock.

Patch by Michael Holman!

Differential revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D70330