[ARM] Extend lowering for i64 reductions

The lowering of a <4 x i16> or <4 x i8> vecreduce.add into an i64 would
previously be expanded, due to the i64 not being legal. This patch
adjusts our reduction matchers, making it produce a VADDLV(sext A to
v4i32) instead.

Differential Revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D93622