[SelectionDAG] soften assertion when legalizing narrow vector FP ops

The test based on PR42010:
https://bugs.llvm.org/show_bug.cgi?id=42010
...may show an inaccuracy for PPC's target defs, but we should not
be so aggressive with an assert here. There's no telling what out-of-tree
targets look like.

llvm-svn: 361696