[X86][SSE] Fold add(shuffle(),shuffle()) to hadd on 'slow' targets (PR39920)

As reported on PR39920, "slow horizontal ops" targets tend to internally expand to 2*shuffle+add/sub - so if we can reduce 2*shuffle+add/sub to a hadd/sub then we should do it - similar port usage but reduced instruction count.

This works out in most cases, although the "PR22377" regression in vector-shuffle-combining.ll is annoying - going from 2*shuffle+add+shuffle to hadd+2*shuffle - I've opened PR41813 to cover this.

Differential Revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D61308

llvm-svn: 360360