[X86][SSE] Fix typo + infinite-loop in HOP(HOP'(X,X),HOP'(Y,Y)) fold (PR52040)

PR52040 identified several issues with the HOP(HOP'(X,X),HOP'(Y,Y)) -> HOP(PERMUTE(HOP'(X,Y)),PERMUTE(HOP'(X,Y)) slow-HOP fold.

Not only was there a copy+paste typo when accessing the inner HOP operands, but the (unnecessary) ReplaceAllUsesOfValueWith call was missing one use checks.

Now that we have better shuffle combines of HOPs we can just return a new HOP() sequence and not use ReplaceAllUsesOfValueWith at all - this actually improved pair_sum_v8i32_v4i32 codegen as it kicks off further shuffle combines.