[NewPM] Only verify loop for nonskipped user loop pass

No verification for pass mangers since it is not needed.
No verification for skipped loop pass since the asserted condition is not used.

Add a BeforeNonSkippedPass callback for this. The callback needs more
inputs than its parameters to work so the callback is added on-the-fly.

Reviewed By: aeubanks, asbirlea

Differential Revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D84977