[mlir][IR] Use Listener for IR callbacks in OperationFolder

Remove the IR modification callbacks from `OperationFolder`. Instead, an optional `RewriterBase::Listener` can be specified.
* `processGeneratedConstants` => `notifyOperationCreated`
* `preReplaceAction` => `notifyOperationReplaced`

This simplifies the GreedyPatternRewriterDriver because we no longer need special handling for IR modifications due to op folding.

A folded operation is now enqueued on the GreedyPatternRewriteDriver's worklist if it was modified in-place. (There may be new patterns that apply after folding.)

Also fixes a bug in `TestOpInPlaceFold::fold`. The folder could previously be applied over and over and did not return a "null" OpFoldResult if the IR was not modified. (This is similar to a pattern that returns `success` without modifying IR; it can trigger an infinite loop in the GreedyPatternRewriteDriver.)

Differential Revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D144463