[flang][driver] Rename the accessors/mutators (NFC)

As per point 3 in [1]:

```
Accessor member functions are named with the non-public data member's
name, less the trailing underscore.  Mutator member functions are named
set_...
```

Originally we just followed the LLVM's style, which is incompatible with
Flang. This patch renames the accessors and mutators accordingly.

`getDiagnostics` and `GetDiagnostics` are replaced with one accessor:
`diagnostics`. `SetDiagnostics` was neither implemented nor used, so
it's deleted.

[1] https://github.com/llvm/llvm-project/blob/master/flang/docs/C++style.md#naming

Differential Revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D90300