[globalisel][combine] Improve the truncate placement for the extending-loads combine

This brings the extending loads patch back to the original intent but minus the
PHI bug and with another small improvement to de-dupe truncates that are
inserted into the same block.

The truncates are sunk to their uses unless this would require inserting before a
phi in which case it sinks to the _beginning_ of the predecessor block for that
path (but no earlier than the def).

The reason for choosing the beginning of the predecessor is that it makes de-duping
multiple truncates in the same block simple, and optimized code is going to run a
scheduler at some point which will likely change the position anyway.

llvm-svn: 343804