[SelectOpt] Add handling for Select-like operations. (#77284)

Some operations behave like selects. For example `or(zext(c), y)` is the
same as select(c, y|1, y)` and instcombine can canonicalize the select
to the or form. These operations can still be worthwhile converting to
branch as opposed to keeping as a select or or instruction.

This patch attempts to add some basic handling for them, creating a
SelectLike abstraction in the select optimization pass. The backend can
opt into handling `or(zext(c),x)` as a select if it could be profitable,
and the select optimization pass attempts to handle them in much the
same way as a `select(c, x|1, x)`. The Or(x, 1) may need to be added as
a new instruction, generated as the or is converted to branches.

This helps fix a regression from selects being converted to or's
recently.