[Orc] Refactor the compile-on-demand layer to make module partitioning lazy,

and avoid cloning unused decls into every partition.

Module partitioning showed up as a source of significant overhead when I
profiled some trivial test cases. Avoiding the overhead of partitionging
for uncalled functions helps to mitigate this.

This change also means that it is no longer necessary to have a
LazyEmittingLayer underneath the CompileOnDemand layer, since the
CompileOnDemandLayer will not extract or emit function bodies until they are
called.

llvm-svn: 236465