ADT: Stop using getNodePtrUnchecked on end() iterators

Stop using `getNodePtrUnchecked()` when building IR.  Eventually a
dereference will be required to get at the downcast node, since the
iterator will only store an `ilist_node_base` of some sort.

This should have no functionality change for now, but is a path towards
removing some more UB from ilist.

llvm-svn: 261495