[cmake] Changes to get Windows self-host working with PGO

Fixes quoting of profile arguments to work on Windows
Suppresses adding profile arguments to linker flags when using lld-link
Avoids -fprofile-instr-use being added to rc.exe flags
Removes duplicated adding of -fprofile-instr-use to linker flags (since
r355541)
Move handling LLVM_PROFDATA_FILE to HandleLLVMOptions.cmake

Differential Revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D62063

llvm-svn: 372209