Make llvm::Optional<T> trivially copyable when T is trivially copyable

This is an ever-recurring issue (see https://bugs.llvm.org/show_bug.cgi?id=39427 and https://bugs.llvm.org/show_bug.cgi?id=35978)
but I believe that thanks to https://reviews.llvm.org/D54472 we can now ship a decent implementation of this.

Basically the fact that llvm::is_trivially_copyable has a consistent behavior across compilers should prevent any ABI issue,
and using in-place new instead of memcpy should keep compiler bugs away.

Differential Revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D57097

llvm-svn: 353927