[clang][cmake] Force CMAKE_LINKER for multistage build in case of...

[clang][cmake] Force CMAKE_LINKER for multistage build in case of BOOTSTRAP_LLVM_ENABLE_LLD and MSVC

The issue with LLVM_ENABLE_LLD is that it just passes -fuse-ld=lld
to compiler/linker options which makes sense only for those platforms
where cmake invokes a compiler driver for linking. On Windows (MSVC) cmake
invokes the linker directly and requires CMAKE_LINKER to be specified
otherwise it defaults CMAKE_LINKER to be link.exe.

This patch allows BOOTSTRAP_LLVM_ENABLE_LLD to set CMAKE_LINKER in two cases:
* if building for host Windows,
* if crosscompiling for target Windows.

It also skips adding '-fuse-ld=lld' to make lld-link not warning
about 'unknown argument'.

This fixes build with `clang/cmake/caches/DistributionExample.cmake`
on Windows.

Reviewed By: phosek

Differential Revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D80873