[DAG] scalarizeBinOpOfSplats - extract from the source of splat vector (PR46189)

D79003/rG9fa58d1bf2f8 exposed an issue with scalarizeBinOpOfSplats that we were extracting from the splatted vector result instead of the source, the splat index is only valid for the source vector not the result, which may contain undefs, including at the splat index.