[PM] Another post-commit fix in NewPMDriver

There were two errors in the parsing of opt's command line options for
extension point pipelines. The EP callbacks are not supposed to return a
value. To check the pipeline text for correctness, I now try to parse it
into a temporary PM object, and print a message on failure. This solves
the compile time error for the lambda return type, as well as correctly
handles unparsable pipelines now.

llvm-svn: 307649