[CUDA][HIP] Fix new driver crashing when using -save-temps in RDC-mode

Previously when using the `clang-offload-packager` we did not pass the
active offloading kinds. Then in Clang when we attempted to detect when
there was host-offloading action that needed to be embedded in the host
we did not find it. This patch adds the active offloading kinds so we
know when there is input to be embedded.

Reviewed By: tra

Differential Revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D134189