[DSE,MemorySSA] Delay PointerMayBeCaptured calls until actually needed.

Avoid computing InvisibleToCallerBefore/AfterRet up front. In most
cases, this information is not really needed. Instead, introduce helper
functions to compute and cache the result on demand.

Notably, this also does not use PointerMayBeCapturedBefore for
isInvisibleToCallerBeforeRet, as it requires the killing MemoryDef as
starting instruction, making the caching ineffective. But it appears the
use of PointerMayBeCapturedBefore has very limited benefits in practice
(e.g. on SPEC2000/SPEC2006/MultiSource there are no binary changes with
-O3 -flto). Refrain from using it for now, to limit-compile-time.

This gives some nice compile-time improvements:
http://llvm-compile-time-tracker.com/compare.php?from=db9345f6810f379a36752dc52caf5230585d0ebd&to=b4d091047e1b8a3d377d200137b79d03aca65663&stat=instructions