[NFC][X86][CostModel] Rewrite load_store.ll

Test SSE41, since that added float/i64/i32/i8 inserts/extracts.
Don't forget to test vectors of pointers.
Do test byte-aligned loads/stores.
Fixup test coverage to be rather more exhaustive,
testing all reasonable element sizes vs element counts permutations
that fit up to witin ZMM.