[X86] decomposeMulByConstant - decompose legal vXi32 multiplies on SlowPMULLD...

[X86] decomposeMulByConstant - decompose legal vXi32 multiplies on SlowPMULLD targets and all vXi64 multiplies

X86's decomposeMulByConstant never permits mul decomposition to shift+add/sub if the vector multiply is legal.

Unfortunately this isn't great for SSE41+ targets which have PMULLD for vXi32 multiplies, but is often quite slow. This patch proposes to allow decomposition if the target has the SlowPMULLD flag (i.e. Silvermont). We also always decompose legal vXi64 multiplies - even latest IceLake has really poor latencies for PMULLQ.

Differential Revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D110588