CodeGen: Resize LifetimeExtendedCleanupHeader to avoid alignment issues

The LifetimeExtendedCleanupHeader is carefully fit into 32 bytes,
meaning that cleanups on the LifetimeExtendedCleanupStack are *always*
allocated at a misaligned address and cause undefined behaviour.

There are two ways to solve this - add padding after the header when
we allocated our cleanups, or just simplify the header and let it use
64 bits in the first place. I've opted for the latter, and added a
static assert to avoid the issue in the future.

llvm-svn: 241133