[AArch64][SVE] Add a commutative VSelectCommPredOrPassthruPatFrags

This adds a commutative version of VSelectPredOrPassthruPatFrags (renamed from
EitherVSelectOrPassthruPatFrags) that checks both variants for commutative
operations like min/max. I have not attempted to handle fp operation that
require fast-math flags.

Differential Revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D151084