[Passes] add a tail-call-elim pass near the end of the opt pipeline

We call tail-call-elim near the beginning of the pipeline,
but that is too early to annotate calls that get added later.

In the motivating case from issue #47852, the missing 'tail'
on memset leads to sub-optimal codegen.

I experimented with removing the early instance of
tail-call-elim instead of just adding another pass, but that
appears to be slightly worse for compile-time:
+0.15% vs. +0.08% time.
"tailcall" shows adding the pass; "tailcall2" shows moving
the pass to later, then adding the original early pass back
(so 1596886802 is functionally equivalent to 180b0439dc ):
https://llvm-compile-time-tracker.com/index.php?config=NewPM-O3&stat=instructions&remote=rotateright

Note that there was an effort to split the tail call functionality
into 2 passes - that could help reduce compile-time if we find
that this change costs more in compile-time than expected based
on the preliminary testing:
D60031

Differential Revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D130374