[ARM] Remove FlattenVectorShuffle and add PerformVQDMULHCombine.

This removes the FlattenVectorShuffle that folds shuffles through certain
binops. This is now handled by generic DAG combines for all but ARMISD::VQDMULH
where a PerformVQDMULHCombine is added to compensate. It pushes identical
shuffles down through the operation, in a similar way to the other combines in
DAG.