[libc++] Add a per-target flag to include the generated config_site

This allows propagating the include automatically to targets that
depend on one of the libc++ targets such as the benchmarks. Note
that the GoogleBenchmark build itself still needs to manually specify
the -include, since I don't know of any way to have an external project
link against one of the libc++ targets (which would propagate the -include
automatically).

llvm-svn: 373631