[mlir][sparse] Introducing options for the SparseTensorConversion pass

This is work towards: https://github.com/llvm/llvm-project/issues/51652

This differential sets up the options and threads them through everywhere, but doesn't actually use them yet.  The differential that finally makes use of them is D122061, which is the final differential in the chain that fixes bug 51652.

Reviewed By: aartbik

Differential Revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D122054