[ptr-traits] Refactor how PointerIntPair does its pointer manipulation

to isolate it in a dependent helper class.

Without doing this, we end up requiring all of the pointer traits the
moment you even define a PointerIntPair. That makes them *incredibly*
hard to use, for example you can't use them at all inside a class for
pointers to that class!

This change sinks all the logic into a helper template class that only
needs to be fully instantiated when *using* the PointerIntPair. We still
get compile-time checking, but it is deferred long enough to make
tradition out-of-line method definitions (or just the normal deferred
method body parsing) sufficient to handle cycling references.

llvm-svn: 256618