[lld][WebAssembly] Add optional symbols after input file handling

This allows undefined references in input files be resolved by the
optional symbols.  Previously we were doing this before input file
reading which means it was working only for command line symbols
references (i.e. -u or --export).

Also use addOptionalDataSymbol for __dso_handle and make all optional
symbols hidden by default.

Differential Revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D65920

llvm-svn: 368310