[ARM64-BE] Make big endian (scalar) argument passing work correctly.

This completes the port of r204814 (cpirker "AArch64_BE function argument
passing for ARM ABI") from AArch64 to ARM64, and fixes a bunch of issues
found during later development along the way. The biggest of these was
that the alignment fixup logic wasn't replicated into all the places it
should have been.

llvm-svn: 208192