[mlir][Linalg] Fix incorrect logic in deciding when to fuse reshapes by linearization.

Fusion by linearization should not happen when
- The reshape is expanding and it is a consumer
- The reshape is collapsing and is a producer.

The bug introduced in this logic by some recent refactoring resulted
in a crash.
To enforce this (negetive) use case, add a test that reproduces the
error and verifies the fix.

Differential Revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D104970