[X86][AVX] Add lowerShuffleAsLanePermuteAndSHUFP lowering

Add initial support for lowering v4f64 shuffles to SHUFPD(VPERM2F128(V1, V2), VPERM2F128(V1, V2)), eventually this could be used for v8f32 (and maybe v8f64/v16f32) but I'm being conservative for the initial implementation as only v4f64 can always succeed.

This currently is only called from lowerShuffleAsLanePermuteAndShuffle so only gets used for unary shuffles, and we limit this to cases where we use upper elements as otherwise concating 2 xmm shuffles is probably the better case.

Helps with poor shuffles mentioned in D66004.