Fix PR35564 - std::list splice/erase incorrectly throw in debug mode.

There was a bug in the implementation of splice where the container
sizes were updated before decrementing one of the iterators. Afterwards,
the result of decrementing the iterator was flagged as UB by the debug
implementation because the container was reported to be empty.

This patch fixes that bug by delaying the updating of the container
sizes until after the iterators have been correctly constructed.

llvm-svn: 323390