[libc++] Fix the LIBCXX_HAS_MERGED_TYPEINFO_NAMES_DEFAULT setting

When the __config_site header is generated, but LIBCXX_HAS_MERGED_TYPEINFO_NAMES_DEFAULT
wasn't specified, _LIBCPP_HAS_MERGED_TYPEINFO_NAMES_DEFAULT would be defined
to 0, which was the NonUnique RTTI comparison implementation. The intent
was to use the Unique RTTI comparison implementation in that case, which
caused https://llvm.org/PR45549.

Instead, use a proper "switch" to select the RTTI comparison implementation.
Note that 0 can't be used as a value, because that is treated the same
by CMake as a variable that is just not defined.

Differential Revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D80037