[clang][Tooling] Try to avoid file system access if there is no record for the...

[clang][Tooling] Try to avoid file system access if there is no record for the file in compile_commads.json

Summary:
If there is no record in compile_commands.json, we try to find suitable record with `MatchTrie.findEquivalent()` call.
This is very expensive operation with a lot of `llvm::sys::fs::equivalent()` calls in some cases.

This patch disables file symlinks for performance reasons.

Example scenario without this patch:
- compile_commands.json generated at clangd build (contains ~3000 files).
- it tooks more than 1 second to get compile command for newly created file in the root folder of LLVM project.
- we wait for 1 second every time when clangd requests compile command for this file (at file change).

Reviewers: sammccall, kadircet, hokein

Reviewed By: sammccall

Subscribers: chandlerc, djasper, klimek, ilya-biryukov, kadircet, usaxena95, cfe-commits

Tags: #clang

Differential Revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D83621