[VPlan] Add recipe for first-order rec phis, make splicing explicit.

This patch adds a VPFirstOrderRecurrencePHIRecipe, to further untangle
VPWidenPHIRecipe into distinct recipes for distinct use cases/lowering.
See D104989 for a new recipe for reduction phis.

This patch also introduces a new `FirstOrderRecurrenceSplice`
VPInstruction opcode, which is used to make the forming of the vector
recurrence value explicit in VPlan. This more accurately models def-uses
in VPlan and also simplifies code-generation. Now, the vector recurrence
values are created at the right place during VPlan-codegeneration,
rather than during post-VPlan fixups.

Reviewed By: Ayal

Differential Revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D105008