[mlir][sparse] Expose SpareTensor passes as enums instead of opaque numbers...

[mlir][sparse] Expose SpareTensor passes as enums instead of opaque numbers for vectorization and parallelization options.

The SparseTensor passes currently use opaque numbers for the CLI, despite using an enum internally. This patch exposes the enums instead of numbered items that are matched back to the enum.

Fixes GitHub issue #53389

Reviewed by: aartbik, mehdi_amini

Differential Revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D123876