[ARM] Add SEH opcodes in frame lowering

Skip inserting regular CFI instructions if using WinCFI.

This is based a fair amount on the corresponding ARM64 implementation,
but instead of trying to insert the SEH opcodes one by one where
we generate other prolog/epilog instructions, we try to walk over the
whole prolog/epilog range and insert them. This is done because in
many cases, the exact number of instructions inserted is abstracted
away deeper.

For some cases, we manually insert specific SEH opcodes directly where
instructions are generated, where the automatic mapping of instructions
to SEH opcodes doesn't hold up (e.g. for __chkstk stack probes).

Skip Thumb2SizeReduction for SEH prologs/epilogs, and force
tail calls to wide instructions (just like on MachO), to make sure
that the unwind info actually matches the width of the final
instructions, without heuristics about what later passes will do.

Mark SEH instructions as scheduling boundaries, to make sure that they
aren't reordered away from the instruction they describe by
PostRAScheduler.

Mark the SEH instructions with the NoMerge flag, to avoid doing
tail merging of functions that have multiple epilogs that all end
with the same sequence of "b <other>; .seh_nop_w, .seh_endepilogue".

Differential Revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D125648